Living Youthfully—1 Timothy 4:12—Drummontown Baptist Church—Accomac Va 23301 October 14, 2018—David R. Denny PhD
How many of you would like to look 10-20 years younger? Well, this is your lucky day. All you have to for this to happen is to listen carefully to my sermon and take mental notes. It always pays to go to church. There is no charge for this secret to youthfulness. It is a gift from me to you.
*I don’t think I’ve ever watched the Shark Tank. This is a tv show where 5 rich entrepreneurs listen to a business proposal from some rookie who hopes to strike it rich. If they like it, they will invest and help to launch the dream. I read a recent news story about this show. Two young women had an idea for a facial cream. Rub this cream on your face daily and it will literally remove wrinkles and restore a baby’s complexion to your weary face. When they finished their presentation, all five members of the Star Tank bought in—instantly! All of the movie stars are now using it. (For a small fee I will happy to give you the name —Livali—of this product).
*I searched online for secrets to staying young. Someone interviewed several centenarians in Okinawa, Japan. All were over 100 years old and still quite youthful. One of their secrets is just so down to earth. When they eat, they always stop when they 80% full. They never eat to capacity. They also ate more plants than meat, got the belly fat off, and used their brains.
In our text today, Timothy had just the opposite problem. He wasn’t old and wanting to be young. He was too young as the pastor of the church in Ephesus and so many of the older men were looking down on him. READ TEXT—4:12—“Don’t let anyone ‘despise’καταφρονείτω.your youthfulness. This unique word means literally to “think down”. Its a cruel way of sizing up someone you don’t like and trying to demean them. This is actually just plain bullying. (I was glad to see that Melania Trump is involved in an anti-bullying campaign saying she knows what it feels like to be bullied herself).
Paul is very upset at this. I can tell by reading his words. He commands Timothy, using the imperative mode, to never let anyone do this to him. Rise above it Timothy, he says to the young pastor. —-And then Paul creates a fascinating ingredients list for positive youthful living. And so let’s look quickly at the five ingredients in Paul’s forever young secret cream. Each day this week, get up and immerse yourself in Paul’s secret for youthful living and observe the effect upon your life.
- Be positive and helpful in what you say to others.ἐνλόγῳ, The old playground taunt went this way: Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me. A writer on workplace culture rephrased it this way: “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can break my heart.”
*On a customer service blog, there were 25 top words that resonated with customers. The top three were: Definitely—I will definitely make sure that it gets done 2. Absolutely—I absolutely agree with you. 3. Certainly—I can certainly help you etc. etc..
Paul says to Timothy—Don’t worry about your critics. Just let your words be gold and you will see them take effect over a long time.
- Live your words. Let your behavior prove your character. The word here for behavior ἐν ἀναστροφῇ, is Peter’s favorite word. (“Up—Turn”). Peter uses it 8 times in his two short letters. Why? Because behavior tells the world who you really are.
*I watched a guy doing some basic Yoga moves the other day. On one Yoga exercise, he started low and swung his arms up high very slowly breathing carefully. This word means a new inward change charges through you and results in positive, spiritual behavior.
Paul says to Timothy. Just live your beliefs. Let the world around you and these old critics in the church see that are you serious about serving God. You’re not just a charlatan or a pretender.—Do this and your youthfulness will shine through to the world about you.
- Love more, hate less. ἐν ἀγάπῃ, Frowning can cause wrinkles! And anger can make you age faster. In the British Medical Journal Thorax, scientists found that anger and hostility are associated with a host of long-term health problems.
Paul’s advice to young Timothy was simple. Just love more, Timothy. Put aside your anger toward those who are against you. When people resist you, just determine in your heart to retaliate with love.
* My tuna sub at Was Mart. I waited for five minutes while the lady counted her change 10 times the register. Finally, another lady showed up and with a smirk just stared at me at the preparation area. No greeting. No pleasantries. Now words period. Just staring waiting for me to make a tuna move.—I didn’t say anything. I didn’t show much love but I didn’t get mad.
But Paul goes further with Timothy—Return Love when you’re mistreated. Not easy but it leads to youthfulness. Love more—hate less.
- Practice having more faith. ἐν πίστει, What was the one thing that upset Jesus more than others? It was when His disciples or followers demonstrated little faith. Jesus found it so hard to understand this. Faith just came naturally to Him. (Matt 8:26). “He said to them, Why are you afraid, you men of little faith”?
Living by faith runs contrary to the modern mind. We want to be able to explain everything. We prefer logic and facts. But Jesus preferred faith. And he passed that lesson on to Paul who now passed it on to Timothy. “Timothy, he said, when the critics say it can’t be done or it won’t work, just smile and believe in your heart. Have faith.
It’s a simple yet profound truth. Living by faith means we walk hand in hand with God trusting that He can lead the way through this difficult world. It’s a secret to youthfulness. It’s daring and bold, and refreshing. Practice living by faith each day, trusting in God’s care for your life and believing in miracles.
- Live a life of Purity. ἐν ἁγνείᾳ. This is a rare word but it should not be a rare trait in your life. Purity means casting out the dark and negative influences that abound in this modern world.
*In the OT times there was a unique pledge of purity that individuals often used when they wanted to draw nearer to God. It was called the Nazarite Vow. From the Hebrew word Nazir—separated ones. Numbers chapter 6 explains this ritual. If you chose to draw near to God or needed His help, you could take the Nazarite Vow. You would not drink any alcohol during the vow time. You would never go near a dead body and you would not cut your hair.
Men and women could take the vow. It was always voluntary and set numbers were created so it didn’t go on forever. Hannah took such a vow in 1 Samuel and Samson did so in Judge 13:5. Samson was known for his long uncut hair. This was part of the Nazarite Vow.
We don’t have to take a vow. But living a dedicated life to God, a pure and chaste life, is one of the commands to young Timothy.
Conclusion: So here you have the secrets to youthful living:
- Be positive and helpful in what you say.
- Live your words—Behavior
- Love more, hate less
- Practice living by faith
- Live a life of Purity.
Do these things and join ranks with youthful Timothy. Do these things and watch the wrinkles fall off your soul.