Straight Talk to Street Thugs.
Proverbs 1:8-19. DBC. October 28, 2018. Dr. Denny
This morning we’re going to let Solomon give us all some good advice. The title of the sermon is Straight Talk to Street Thugs. You might be thinking to yourself, well this doesn’t apply to me. I’m not a thug. But we know from St. Paul that we are all sinners and so I think we should shed our self-righteousness and realize that if we hadn’t had wonderful parents and some good breaks we too could be running wild in some gang somewhere.
Solomon, a man of great wisdom, could have started his book with any of a thousand wonderful themes such as joy or happiness or love. But instead, he begins with the dirty subject of rebellion, and hopelessness, and abandonment. Mix these ingredients into the life of any young person and you end up with a thug running wild without guidance or a future.
*I read the story of just one such person in the newspaper called The Guardian. The very title of the piece seems outrageous. The title of the article is: “Dangerous, growing, yet unnoticed: the rise of America’s white gangs.” In this provocative story, the writer follows the life of a poor street kid namedBenny Ivey from Mississippi. When Ivey was 12, he began sniffing Scotchguard. He soon followed his adoptive parents and two uncles,—all school dropouts—into addiction. His dad made $20 an hour as a carpenter, but most of it paid for their habits…..
If only Benny had listened to Solomon. He said in verse10—“My son if sinners entice you, do not consent…”.’vs 15 also… But Benny didn’t know Solomon and the only adults in his life were all addicts and lost in the creases of criminal activity. This is a long story with a happy ending because after years and years of reform schools, jail time and big-time gang violence, he met a nice woman and found God and actually got involved in Sunday school…
Solomon’s message is for all of us today no matter our age or background. Live your life with the fear of the Lord. Listen to your parents and have the courage to resist the dark side of life. These aren’t just words for street thugs; this is advice from a wise man who had seen it all. His own dad was a powerful man who had committed murder and adultery but who had confessed his crimes to the Almighty and found for forgiveness. Solomon urges all of us to put God first in our lives and to turn away from the evil that tempts us every day.
**I admire Merle Haggard. He had such a rough start in life. He was born in a converted boxcar in California. His father died of a brain hemorrhage when he was young and his life seemed to spiral downward for years and years. Arrested and jailed many times over, it wasn’t until he was about 23, after a week in solitary confinement in San Quentin prison and then watching one of his buddies namedRabbit die on death row that he decided to change his life. He learned to sing and play the guitar and he listened to Johnny Cash play at San Quentin, he began a recording career. He never forgot his upbringing. One of his early hits began this way: I turned twenty-one in prison doing life without parole. No one could steer me right but Mama tried…That seems to come right out of Proverbs 1 where Solomon said that you should listen to your mother and if you don’t you’ll simply end up ambushing your own life! (v18).
I was impressed by how Merle Haggard turned his life around and I invited him to join us today and to sing his song that so embodies the words of Solomon. …
(I played this tune in church)–Merle Haggard singing Mama Tried released in 1968…
Let’s sum up Solomon’s Straight Talk—
- The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge. (v7). It seems so simple and basic. Just find the Lord early in your life and set your heart on pleasing Him. **There is no better place than SS to make this happen. My whole life was changed by simply attending SS. It was there that I played with other kids, sat in little classes taught by loving adults. It was in SS that I learned to do Bible drills,find and memorize verses, do arts and crafts that pointed me to the Lord. It was in SS that I was challenged to be the youth preacher when I was in high school—a job nobody else would take. I did it and I loved it. It was in SS that got little pins for attendance and it was in SS that I learned the basic truths of the Gospel.
Solomon would have loved SS because that is where you learn the fear of the Lord and love of Christ and joy of the church. And it was in SS that the street thug Benny Ives from Mississippi finally found his freedom.
- Honor and learn from your parents—your father and mother (vs 8-9). Benny Ives had no real parents. The closest thing he had were adoptive adults who were all addicts. Parenting is such an important skill. *I could always tell in my class of 8th graders at school who came from a good family. Those parents always came to the open house and wanted me the teacher to know them. Kids from families with good parents usually behaved better and took their education more seriously.
Parents are like guiding lights that keep us on the right path. When the temptations of the dark world ensnare us, and social pressures summon us to do wrong, parents step in and show the way. If you had good parents, remember to thank God for them. Not everybody is this fortunate.
**When I was in my 20s I remember going with Alice deep inside ofLuray Caverns. Down and around we went further into the labyrinth of narrow winding paths. Finally, after about 20 minutes of starring atstalagmitesand listening to the gurgles of water in the distance, the guide stopped and did something that nearly killed me—literally. He turned off his flashlight and plunged us all into the pitch black that only a cave can deliver. In an instant, my heart began to race, and perspiration bubbled up on my arms and forehead. I began hyper ventilating, unable to breathe. Panic overwhelmed me, and I wanted to run, but I couldn’t see any escape.
This is the effect of living in a world without parents who know the way forward and who are guiding lights. Parents guide. It was what they do and kids need that. They even need it when they become adults. We still get calls from our grown kids when they seem lost or perplexed or in some type of danger.
Solomon reminds us that parents are invaluable and they are the key to avoiding endless troubles in life.
- And finally, Solomon tells to have the courage at any age to learn to say NO to temptations that we know will lead us astray. He tells us in v 15—“My son, do not walk in the way with them. Keep your feet from their path.” Solomon’s advice is simple. Just say no like Jesus did in the wilderness where He wandered for 40 days. Every time the Devil dangled some tempting offer before him, Jesus resisted. It’s a basic skill but its an essential one. It takes courage to say no when others are doing wrong. But Solomon had an unusual take on what was really going on. He said inverse 18—These people who rush toward trouble are really ”ambushing their own lives.”
*It was Nancy Reaganwho had the famous slogan “Just Say No!” to drugs. Much of the media and the world laughed at her naivety for creating such a silly slogan. Kids can’t do that the experts said. And maybe that was true, but Solomon seems to be saying the same thing. I could paraphrase verse ten by saying, “My son, if sinners entice you, ”Just say no.”
So let’s sum up Solomon’s Straight Talk to Street Thugs and the rest of us.
- Put God in the center of your life. It might be old fashioned, but there is something powerful about living a life that is centered around the divine.
- Listen to and value your parents. They know a lot more than you think.
- Learn how to have personal courage. Just say no when temptation strikes.